You can't force someone to love or trust you. Your friends may drop a hint that your ex still talks about you. She also doesn't want us to tell our family's that we are broken up. Are you repelling your ex? What do I do if my ex says he doesn't like me but still asks my guy friend how I'm doing and he got jealous and asked a boy I was flirting with if he liked me and he is still talking to me and still touchy with me but I don't get it what do I do. But now am so heartbroken that we have broken up,we both love each other so dearly. So tread lightly. But there are certain things you can do that'll make you feel even worse, like checking your ex's Facebook page over and over again or sitting at home by yourself and wallowing in your pain. After a couple of months of no contact, you get a message or two. He still has two years left at school. He is the man of my dreams and always told me I was his best girlfriend and I am everything he needed in one. He never texted me back so I thought things were fine. Remember, dreaming about an ex doesn’t mean you are missing your ex, it could be the house you lived in, the area, the mutual friends you had, or all the things you did together. A healthy, strong relationship doesn't happen in the blink of an eye. I feel the basis of our relationship was great- we shared good times, laughter and always on holiday etc. I feel like it was my fault. He keeps accusing me of the things that he do and done. we were having very deep relationship,. You don't have to entertain any messages that come to you or make any efforts at reconciliation. Be wise. I know we all miss family or friends who pass away. he was broken trusted as well. Use this as an opportunity to grow one of the most important aspects of yourself to prepare for a steady relationship. I could tell by the way he looked at me that he still had something for me but he got a girlfriend 2 years after we broke it off. She also gets jealous if I go out .. and would want to leave work. For instance, if your ex asks whether you're seeing someone new or how things are going with your partner, you can say, "Oh — nice of you to ask, but I'm not comfortable talking about my current relationship." Since he returned we’ve been spending a lot of time together, I’ve been asking him about fixing things and going back into a relationship . Do you think I let things cool off a little while and I would still have chance of trying with him again? i need help to get her back. It was not happening and she got crazy with getting into my profile and claiming i was Hearting 5 women photos during out time together .This also was not Happening ..... question ,... A lot of Insecurity here !!! Trust your instincts, and don’t ever be afraid. I was with my ex for 5 years, before dating my now fiancé for 10 years. Not a cheater or a liar or someone who played games with my emotions. Most people say once they let the door close on their ex, and they really were able to move on, that's when the ex popped right back into their lives. We sleep in the same bed, share a car and started having sex again but I was the one who initiated sex . Instead of thinking “I miss my ex boyfriend, I miss him so much I feel so empty in my heart and soul, I’ll never get over him” over and over, pick one thing on my list above. He thought the lying was equal to cheating. He said it wasn’t because it was bad news just that he didn’t want to talk in a bad mood. Now he doesn't wanna talk to me no more. Our relationship was great and this was all out of the blue. he was devastated. After a few months at my first base she told me she didn’t think about me anymore and that she didn’t want to speak to me ever again cuz she lived this guy she was with so we did not speak for months. I flew broken hearted. I told him to go while I travelled solo. Do the right thing and break up … Now no contacts no news nothing. I never been in a serious relationship before because I lost interest quickly but I never lost interest with him. A year of the same messages and voicemails. This means that you are clearly still on her mind. We have something special. He said he needed space tonf8nd work and work on his new relationship. Be classy and kind. I’m always the person who reaches out to him when stuff goes wrong...even if it’s him that’s wrong! Fading away like he usually does. Will it be romantic? There are plenty of men out there who will love you and not play these games. You guys didn't break up on bad terms. I really miss how my ex would randomly show me affection. It’s a totally normal feeling to miss one’s ex after a long time. He kept going back to his ex gf. He cried and left me. He’s now telling me that I should let him go because I killed the feelings he had for me...and there wasn’t any way we would get back together! I have tried to meet up with him to talk but he says he cant at the moment and makes excuses. Also, if you had fixable problems in your relationship that they didn’t solve when you were together, they might have changed that about themselves and pop up in an attempt to show off or get you back. He said he was sorry he didn’t know what to tell me and all he could do was tear up and say he was sorry. Well that day i prepared a surprise for her in my house she had tears in her eyes but she didnt show she was crying i still feel that she loves me, If we could say that monday she told me that she wanna go out and see some wedding dresses Tuesday she dont wanna talk to me anymore and she told me that she will talk to me whem she gonna be back in town again .. so i waited 3 days, Idk why u still think that she still loves me but why doing that ? This was what my mother said to me earlier this year when I found myself four months post break-up suddenly emotional over what seemed to be a totally innocuous reminder of my ex-boyfriend. we both were broken, I was willing to try again but he didn't. He sounds impulsive and greedy. Do you think he will contact me sometime in the future? Do you see the difference? we split up 6 months ago due to my bad finial decisions with property development etc which spiralled meant depression and hardship finically which i then took a lot of my problems out on my ex fiancé. He thought the lying was equal to cheating. I reached out to her so see how she was doing and she broke down and told me that I was the love of her life and how she thought of me during sex with her man and how she lived this man but wasn’t in in love with him and that she doesn’t see him as her forever man. so im really confused... will we possibly get back together? He was in a previous relationship with a woman with 3 kids for 4 years. My chest immediately tightened, I felt panicky and sweaty, my throat closed up and it felt like someone was stabbing me in the pancreas. I look around his bedroom and find all the things I have given him as a gift is organized and on display. He recently said he wanted to settle down and wanted us to have a future together. What doesn’t his mean sound like a booty call to mee, He never gave me his time he tells me he's always busy I felt he doesn't treat me special just like the way he used to do before we broke up several times but now I really need him back. I really have hopes that he and I will reunite because our relationship was amazing, he was a great bf and I have never felt so much fire. One day, I started a fight forcing him to break up with me. I feel like he has feelings for me but nothing compared to what he has for her. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on July 26, 2018: Do let things cool off for awhile -- that in all honesty is the best thing to do in this situation and the only way of having a chance. We were in a fast paced relationship and were looking for a place to move in with each other right before this happened. Nourish and protect your heart and what you really feel. things are much more complicated, we both were soldiers and he servered far from home, so she was basically his whole family. When we first started to go on dates and start hanging out it got more serious to the point of I asked him through text what we were and he said I was his girlfriend. I dont know how someone's feelings change that much in a month. Pray; open your heart to Jesus. Guy was hilarious. He felt bad and said he just wasn't there yet. Brain has a unique way of functioning. Basically in the time we've been dating he initiated everything, he told me he loved me first, said I was the best thing that happened to him. He asked me to move in with him too. They like to see their ex missing them and can’t wait to be with them again. It all depends on what is going through the man's psyche. We broke up 2015 and i decided to focus on my school work and 2016 i went to university. I broke off the engagement and relationship. It's just not fair to your new sweetie, and it won't help you get over your ex any more quickly. She constantly fought me the previous months saying that she didn’t want to see me and that she hated me and that she had no feelings for me but eventually when I’m face to face with her it all changes. I am open to have another child with him. From the postman, to family to our most significant other. I was upset... as it wasn't the first time and he had no exuse, so, I wrote to my best female friend about it... and before we slept, he picked on my converstation with her. Randomly missing my ex today I woke up missing and thinking about my ex. You had a particularly messy breakup where they cheated on you; there is no real way to forgive such an action. We cried together for a couple hours and he kept pulling me in hugging me and kissing my neck as he was crying saying he was sorry. You are broken hearted and it seems to be the most painful experience you ever had to deal with in your life. Take this 60 second quiz to find out! And after several months I gave up, We had caring warm loving relations with one twist- we kept it secret. I acted very kind with the breakup. There are times when they will linger, though. We were hesistant because we lived on different states. He talked to me, and let me know that it was best for the both of us to cut communtications. I didn't cheat on him, but I lied to him about some stuff and to him it was a huge deal. so he came with me to my partents. She still calls you from time to time; this can mean that she still likes you and values having a conversation with you. Doesn't open doors, say thankyou when I've made an effort to drive the children for a meet. The next day I confessed to my mother how this unassuming street corner had brought forth all these bewildering feelings that I thought had been resolved. Even though he had a girlfriend, I could tell he still likes me a little bit. I think you have a chance. it was so strong that ever since we got together we lived together and did all the things together, shopping, doctors, food, there hsn't been a day for us apart, and even if there was, we did a long skype session. I broke up with him. The thing that hurt though is the fact that he couldnt break up if me or even address the situation. The worst part of post-breakup is when you miss your ex. He returned the favor and deleted my pictures off his media. Actually we broke up just over a text. My ex and i have been dating for about 4 years.He was a womaniser and very abusive.He used to insult and control me. I contacted him 2 month lated, on April he told me he is in a new relationship. Please advice. The shortening of breath. I'm happy me and my bf have be dating for 3 yrs ND he started cheating on me recently posting pictures of them, My girlfreind of 1 year and 8 months stopped loving me .So it started out in hs my sophmore year i chased her for 3 ml months until she finally wanted me. Say that you're hurt, say thank you for the good times, and say what you need to say. I'm a female as well. But he dumps me for something little? If you felt it was positive, then they more than likely will be connected to it and feel a need to come back. There is a lot of mystery, but if he is ready to jet randomly -- he would do it again, and again, and again. No one likes having doubts and this is … He tells me to leave him alone. He left me because he still loves his ex so he felt it is not right to be with me. I have already graduated and have told him I wouldn’t mind getting engaged soon. Like he would just walk up and hug me from behind, or play with my hand when we were talking, or rub my head while we were watching TV. 3. I work a lot being a single mom with no help from there dad. Then don't say anything at all. There was a huge argument when it when down and it blowed up bad fora few weeks. When she runs into you, she gives you this wide-eyed look of longing. Because I had the fortitude to put aside the love, I really examine whether he was the right guy for me and decide that no he was not. I kept my distance for a week and than texted him again ( a week that felt like a year ) we got back together again, but I never forgave him, 2 weeks before I came back I apologized and said that I can't really forgive him and that I am terribly sorry. Which he was taking to appointments and surgerys and coming over a lot and talkinv to me every day. We have been broken up for a few months from a long-term relationship. She doesn't want to be dramatic about breaking up. The thought of leaving my husband of 4years is scary. Your happy memories together will be forever with you, unless you hit your head hard and get amnesia. I’m currently having one of those moments missing my ex that is almost overwhelming, the painful heavy anxiety that feels like my chest is going to explode. I was the first to block her and she block me too! he only recently let go. So i had been dating my last ex for a year and last saturday he choose to break up over text because he couldn't handle long distance relationships and we didn't have mant interests and two days after he asks if i want to get back with him and he just needed time to himself was it right of me to say no or did I maybe misinterpret him or was he trying to lure me into a sense of false happiness to win me back? I kinda let things slide until that day finally came. He wants me to finish college, and do all of my personal goals in life to be happy. It has nothing to do with your time, but only his. He just dont feel it between us anymore. Sure, you could go out and find a random hookup but not only is that not your style, there’s also no guarantee it’ll be any good. My boyfriend and i of 3 years broke up 3 days ago he said he loves me , doesent think he deserves me and that its just easier if we "leave it". She broke up over phone and then I bombarded messages she blocked me from every social platform. You need to focus on yourself now and make a new life for yourself. Its been almost two weeks since we broke up. He lied a lot went to jail then he called me after jail the night I didn’t wanna didnt want him back n told I can date whoever I want I seen with a other girl then five months later he sends me a txt he needs help that what’s wrong with me why Ann I being rude to him. They start seriously dating someone else. But we always had our fights all time. I have been trying to stay pretty quiet. He broke down crying saying he missed me and has felt so uneasy with out me. we never contacted again, and on January this year he mistakely called me via whatup, I was sure he deleted me from whatsup, as he has from facebook. hy, i have a huge problem. You miss having someone in your life -- it’s completely understandable. Credit: He called you kind, not a curse word when he departed the relationship. Hello Giggles is part of the Meredith Beauty Group. also we had to pay our second deposit for the wedding venue and I asked him what I was supposed to do and he said nothing, He broke me. I asked to speak to our priest who would be marrying us and he told me that his silence was a huge red flag and it was up to me if I wanted to be with somone who needed time to think and figure out their love for me. She posts moody status updates on social media that reveal how much she misses being with you. in the very next morning he admitted and apologized. There’s really no point in trying to get back into something that just won’t keep you happy forever. I’m moving to a location 3 hours from where he stays for school, he broke up with me because he said he can’t do distance. So the music video came out, he saw it &' deleted me. Taking care of kids after work. why ? I saw him randomly several times since we broke it off, and each time we had picked up where we left off and it was magical. He wants to have both you and this other women WHEN he wants to do so. You receive a handwritten letter from him. Be really, really nice. When I asked him to give us a chance, he answered “I would have but you are moving so no”. One thing I can say I miss is our inside jokes. All of this, stuff I never expected, like I'm not a fan of fairy tale stuff but he said it. In this case, it’s not your ex you’re missing, it’s being happy in a good relationship. It's been 2 years since we first broke up, and a year since we disconnected our relation. So after a couple weeks of us talking non stop and he seemed really happy talking to me and even making plans with me and it all seemed to be going well. she's hot and cold with me and i don't blame her as i have emotionally abused her for years and i have just stated turning it around and realising my problems. Sometimes the signs that your ex wants you back are clear. He talks to alot of girls and i mean alot and people tell me thats hes happy and hes loving life does that mean hes over me? Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on May 23, 2019: He still likes you. He had started to act differently the last 2 weeks of our relationship and told me he didnt know what he wanted with life and that included our relationship. Travel Chef from Manila on October 20, 2018: I find it hard to say that ex may return to you because sometimes it's more about the memories rather than the deep feelings he or she had when you guys are still together. But for some reason, I just woke up, and she was the first thing on me mind. It was happening too fast. Dating Someone New But Miss My Ex: I Like Someone But I'm Not Over My Ex. Said she wanted to be single and fuck other people. We broke up late october, early november 2017. When that person leaves, or is dumped, that memory does not vanish. You're not really that broken up though if you still live together and do all the relationship things. If that will happen what will i do? Don't write the email. Same goes for the men out there: it is not a good idea to continue to contact her. He may try to reunite. He said no. Thank you. she wants to see other ppl so i made the mistake of sleeping with somebody assuming she was doing the same. The location of a phone conversation my ex and I once had. Reasons were that she didn’t feel the same as before apparently and thinks she does not love me anymore. People said if he felt this way, he wouldnt have broken up with me... and that it was all a lie.. we've been best friends before and others have told me it all became too real so he bailed on me. It's not like I did nothing. She tries to add you on random social media, including Linkedin, Instagram, and Snapchat. He found out and snapped at me saying I wasn’t respecting his space and he wanted to break up for good. moreover, the routine made him take me forgranted, he even said that, but that never hurt the amount of love that we both had. I’m still very much in love with my ex should I give up? MORE: I Miss My Ex So Much! You've invested your time and your being into your relationship. Why Do I Randomly Think About My Ex. He is a habitual liar but why is it after what he did im still hopeful that he will come back to me? Let's not bash psychologists and counselors. or overthinking it? This testimony is a recent happening in my life which I promised to share because of the good works of Doctor Odunga who brought my ex boyfriend back to me... My name is Laura Michael from Saint Paul in Minnesota, USA. Copyright © 2021 Meredith Corporation. My emotions are clouding a logical reasoning. He said he didn’t want to lead me on or break my heart anymore. I’m being understanding and I’m being patient with her but truly what should I do? It is enough to mention how you feel about your ex partner in a circle of friends that you know will spread the word. He only deleted you off Facebook; he didn't purge you from all social media. Once healed from the pain of implementing a life change that I know I needed to make, that street corner can really only represent something good. He told me he wanted to come over later that week for dinner before he left for the weekend for a fraternity thing. But I don’t wanna get friend zoned. Sometimes he says some really harsh stuff to me or does harsh things to me and acts like it doesn’t matter! She has been going through a rough personal patch ( depression etc - due to personal life issues). We have some arguments last semester and he just joined a fraternity, one he felt he had to join since every guy in his family has been a part of it. but then we started to argue a lot about small things, but the arguments kept coming and then he contacted his ex. But he left Facebook open, and still has my playlist on his spottily. The problem of not attending to our own grief and loss from a breakup can cause us to respond in ways that aren’t healthy for us. Thank you! It might sting initially, but you'll recover and things will get better. This is the key. Finally telling me that he’s met someone else and doesn’t love me anymore. i need advice ASAP. The whole time he was so sweet throughout the process of me getting my stuff and constantly told me I wasn't the issue and that he was still extremely attracted to me but he needs to figure out what he wants before a relationship can come into play. Does she still love me or am I being blind by the love I have for her?. He had a attitude tho. but he insisted he needed the time off. Nobody hurt, just cars. one time we didnt talk for a week &' i thought he didnt want anything serious with me cause he always tells me he doesn't want me anymore. My boyfriend left and i find out he is with another woman. What To Do When You Miss Your Ex Boyfriend… 3. Journal it, talk to friends, talk to a counselor, watch YouTube self-help videos on broken hearts. He had too much on his mind with a new job, a new town, a new everything. He read the message and told me he need so time to think. would it be bad to accept him then as I would be a second choice? This is 43rd and Madison!” His face lit up and I don’t know that I’ll ever forget the way he looked at me while he exclaimed, “It’s our place!” Then HE kissed me for so long that a passerby yelled, “Get a room!”. Was this a random new person he just met? The last night he was home I waited up for him. At the beginning i was fighting to get him back but after i heard he said he is done. It Can Be Ridiculously Confusing When Your Ex-boyfriend Keeps Texting, Then Disappearing Again With No Reply. I went to go see him on Christmas 2017 and he was doing okay. Stop communicating for 30 days if this is fresh. Badically he said he cant keep fixing people when he cant fix himself, that he cant do long distance *even when I offered to move down there but not with him, he said no it wouldnt have made a difference* He needs to sort himself out and that "hes going on a different path" but not with me he doesn't want to be with me, he said the love is there and he still cares. If you're still heartbroken over your ex, then you shouldn't be dating someone new. He has none. I love him and never stopped, we broke up and I got married ,even on my wedding day I wept crazy cause I wished I made a different choice..he never stopped reaching out.. It had been weeks since her breakup. I’m so hurt. i was 7 years younger than him, and we met when I was 19, and he was 26, we got together when I was almost 21. back then he had a girlfriend, and he knew I am in love with him, although I tried to hide it hard. Todd Baratz, a psychotherapist who specializes in sex and relationships, says that sometimes, missing your ex can go hand-in-hand with missing who you … Idk if he's ever going to come back. But time can never wipe out our memories and feelings of an experience we had. There is definitely no 3rd parties involved in the relationship, cheating or a lot of conflicts and it was pretty much a break up in good terms where we can still contact each other whenever we want but she prefers not to and o do as well, at least for now. one day I went to pick him up from work and he was an hour late. We both agreed to try to be friends and possibly catch up from time to time. I moved on and i did not go into another relationship. Hi I have a good question?and that is why did my ex block me on social media just now knowing the fact that we broken up 6 months ago like that does make any sense and I want to know what you about this ?because he could of done this long time ago don’t you think or move on by now. Don't chase after him. My ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago and he got a new girlfriend the same week we broke up. If you are randomly missing your ex boyfriend, means that you are actually missing the good times you both had together. And I don't tell people what they want to hear. And is there any potential for her to coming back. You need to focus on yourself and working on yourself right now. Or will they return, looking to restart the relationship? 4 months after our breakup she had a new boyfriend after 7 months I went home and I saw her we spoke and had sex she said she that it felt like I never left home. Randomly Lyrics: My ex be fans of me / When it all got real, you ran on me / Two months ago couldn't stand lil' me / Now she wanna be a part of my fantasy / Feels so real but how can it be? She continues to open up to you about her emotions. Lately we've been speaking via phone and calls.. At some point I blocked him thinking that will help me forget about him and all we shared but I just cant. I think it's better for the next person she finds worthwhile, or else how would she ever learn not to take someone for granted. I told him we needed to learn to communicate better and handle situations with more maturity and he agreed but asked if it would be okay if he had one more week to think about what he thought we could do to make things better. I would have never suspected her, she was the type you’d take home to Mother, Church and Kids. I was depressed and lost 10kg in short period. Missing him now seemed weak. “I miss my ex because she was a cheerleader for my lifestyle. We cut off all communications with each other kinda. Is it ideal for us to be with our ex the 2nd time around? I say this man doesn't deserve anymore time from you and he is taking advantage of your time when you could be with someone else who cares about you. But at that moment approaching this block, I reflexively clutched my new guy’s hand into an uncomfortable grip. Why? A fourth date. He has me blocked on WhatsApp message ,Facebook message But I can still call him on normal call. The pain and sense of loss feels far worse than the loss of my dad many years ago. Not sure how long it's been since you've broken up, but test the waters with some text messages and see how he responds. He has no where to go cause his parents love me so much and don’t want me to have to make up for his rent since this was his decision. we started living a routine that I was frustrated in, and I was not ready yet to leave my parent's house, but I couldn't be apart from him as well. Is there a chance he could be together again? I met his whole family, was there when things got real tough for him and eventually I let my walls down and fell for him. They are just satisfying itchy ears. Don’t we miss friends who move away? My boyfriend broke up with me because he thinks I love to start drama.When reality I just only told him what happened but he went to confront the girl. But he still says that we need to separate without any communication. Oh and we have been together for about 3 years now, she is 18 and I'm 20. my fiancé said I was throwing it all away. for a month he begged me back, and for a month I kept my pride, but I couldn't be without him. The way it ended was really bad. I'm really confused please help, Hello I'm just shattered I don't know how to say what to say. what could that mean? I'm heartbroken bc I feel she is the one for me. Allow God’s abundant love to flow into your heart and soul. A lot of people who are missing their ex don't want to admit it, so they'll play it off as a joke. I think he saw my changes and improvements and appreciated it, too. Your ex comes up with a strange excuse to see you; maybe she came to drop off a sweater of yours, maybe she wants to pick something up from you. 11. It’s been a month since we broke up, haven’t been in touch only texted him yesterday cause i was asking about my money. Things are probably confusing for her as well. She may have called you multiple times not to win you back, but to get closure -- it's not always easy to tell, and you are probably right that she wanted you back. He told me he would text my friend to check on me and that he would check on me in a couple days. But we have been good together. I would look through his phone to make sure he was texting others again. Listen to them. 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